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Hadith 4913 of the book of commentary by sahih al bukhari

(4913) “...seeking to please your wives...” (V.66:1) “Allah has already ordained for you (O men), the dissolution of your oaths... (V.66:2)

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْعَزِيزِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ بِلَالٍ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏عَنْ يَحْيَى، ‏‏‏‏‏‏عَنْ عُبَيْدِ بْنِ حُنَيْنٍ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ ابْنَ عَبَّاسٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا يُحَدِّثُ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏أَنَّهُ قَالَ:‏‏‏‏ "مَكَثْتُ سَنَةً أُرِيدُ أَنْ أَسْأَلَ عُمَرَ بْنَ الْخَطَّابِ عَنْ آيَةٍ فَمَا أَسْتَطِيعُ أَنْ أَسْأَلَهُ هَيْبَةً لَهُ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏حَتَّى خَرَجَ حَاجًّا، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَخَرَجْتُ مَعَهُ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَلَمَّا رَجَعْنَا وَكُنَّا بِبَعْضِ الطَّرِيقِ عَدَلَ إِلَى الْأَرَاكِ لِحَاجَةٍ لَهُ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏قَالَ:‏‏‏‏ فَوَقَفْتُ لَهُ حَتَّى فَرَغَ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏ثُمَّ سِرْتُ مَعَهُ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقُلْتُ:‏‏‏‏ يَا أَمِيرَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏مَنِ اللَّتَانِ تَظَاهَرَتَا عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مِنْ أَزْوَاجِهِ؟ فَقَالَ:‏‏‏‏ تِلْكَ حَفْصَةُ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏وَعَائِشَةُ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏قَالَ:‏‏‏‏ فَقُلْتُ:‏‏‏‏ وَاللَّهِ إِنْ كُنْتُ لَأُرِيدُ أَنْ أَسْأَلَكَ عَنْ هَذَا مُنْذُ سَنَةٍ فَمَا أَسْتَطِيعُ هَيْبَةً لَكَ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏قَالَ:‏‏‏‏ فَلَا تَفْعَلْ مَا ظَنَنْتَ أَنَّ عِنْدِي مِنْ عِلْمٍ فَاسْأَلْنِي، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَإِنْ كَانَ لِي عِلْمٌ خَبَّرْتُكَ بِهِ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏قَالَ:‏‏‏‏ ثُمَّ قَالَ عُمَرُ:‏‏‏‏ وَاللَّهِ إِنْ كُنَّا فِي الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ مَا نَعُدُّ لِلنِّسَاءِ أَمْرًا حَتَّى أَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ فِيهِنَّ مَا أَنْزَلَ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏وَقَسَمَ لَهُنَّ مَا قَسَمَ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏قَالَ:‏‏‏‏ فَبَيْنَا أَنَا فِي أَمْرٍ أَتَأَمَّرُهُ إِذْ قَالَتِ امْرَأَتِي لَوْ صَنَعْتَ كَذَا وَكَذَا، ‏‏‏‏‏‏قَالَ:‏‏‏‏ فَقُلْتُ لَهَا:‏‏‏‏ مَا لَكَ وَلِمَا هَا هُنَا وَفِيمَ تَكَلُّفُكِ فِي أَمْرٍ أُرِيدُهُ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقَالَتْ لِي:‏‏‏‏ عَجَبًا لَكَ يَا ابْنَ الْخَطَّابِ مَا تُرِيدُ أَنْ تُرَاجَعَ أَنْتَ وَإِنَّ ابْنَتَكَ لَتُرَاجِعُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حَتَّى يَظَلَّ يَوْمَهُ غَضْبَانَ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقَامَ عُمَرُ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَأَخَذَ رِدَاءَهُ مَكَانَهُ حَتَّى دَخَلَ عَلَى حَفْصَةَ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقَالَ لَهَا:‏‏‏‏ يَا بُنَيَّةُ إِنَّكِ لَتُرَاجِعِينَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حَتَّى يَظَلَّ يَوْمَهُ غَضْبَانَ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقَالَتْ حَفْصَةُ:‏‏‏‏ وَاللَّهِ إِنَّا لَنُرَاجِعُهُ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقُلْتُ:‏‏‏‏ تَعْلَمِينَ أَنِّي أُحَذِّرُكِ عُقُوبَةَ اللَّهِ وَغَضَبَ رَسُولِهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَا بُنَيَّةُ لَا يَغُرَّنَّكِ هَذِهِ الَّتِي أَعْجَبَهَا حُسْنُهَا حُبُّ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِيَّاهَا، ‏‏‏‏‏‏يُرِيدُ عَائِشَةَ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏قَالَ:‏‏‏‏ ثُمَّ خَرَجْتُ حَتَّى دَخَلْتُ عَلَى أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ لِقَرَابَتِي مِنْهَا فَكَلَّمْتُهَا، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقَالَتْ أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ:‏‏‏‏ عَجَبًا لَكَ يَا ابْنَ الْخَطَّابِ دَخَلْتَ فِي كُلِّ شَيْءٍ حَتَّى تَبْتَغِيَ أَنْ تَدْخُلَ بَيْنَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَأَزْوَاجِهِ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَأَخَذَتْنِي وَاللَّهِ أَخْذًا كَسَرَتْنِي عَنْ بَعْضِ مَا كُنْتُ أَجِدُ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَخَرَجْتُ مِنْ عِنْدِهَا وَكَانَ لِي صَاحِبٌ مِنْ الْأَنْصَارِ إِذَا غِبْتُ أَتَانِي بِالْخَبَرِ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏وَإِذَا غَابَ كُنْتُ أَنَا آتِيهِ بِالْخَبَرِ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏وَنَحْنُ نَتَخَوَّفُ مَلِكًا مِنْ مُلُوكِ غَسَّانَ ذُكِرَ لَنَا أَنَّهُ يُرِيدُ أَنْ يَسِيرَ إِلَيْنَا، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقَدِ امْتَلَأَتْ صُدُورُنَا مِنْهُ فَإِذَا صَاحِبِي الْأَنْصَارِيُّ يَدُقُّ الْبَابَ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقَالَ:‏‏‏‏ افْتَحْ افْتَحْ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقُلْتُ:‏‏‏‏ جَاءَ الْغَسَّانِيُّ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقَالَ:‏‏‏‏ بَلْ أَشَدُّ مِنْ ذَلِكَ اعْتَزَلَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَزْوَاجَهُ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقُلْتُ:‏‏‏‏ رَغَمَ أَنْفُ حَفْصَةَ وَعَائِشَةَ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَأَخَذْتُ ثَوْبِي، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَأَخْرُجُ حَتَّى جِئْتُ فَإِذَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي مَشْرُبَةٍ لَهُ يَرْقَى عَلَيْهَا بِعَجَلَةٍ وَغُلَامٌ لِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَسْوَدُ عَلَى رَأْسِ الدَّرَجَةِ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقُلْتُ لَهُ:‏‏‏‏ قُلْ هَذَا عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَأَذِنَ لِي، ‏‏‏‏‏‏قَالَ عُمَرُ:‏‏‏‏ فَقَصَصْتُ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ هَذَا الْحَدِيثَ فَلَمَّا بَلَغْتُ حَدِيثَ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ تَبَسَّمَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏وَإِنَّهُ لَعَلَى حَصِيرٍ مَا بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَهُ شَيْءٌ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏وَتَحْتَ رَأْسِهِ وِسَادَةٌ مِنْ أَدَمٍ حَشْوُهَا لِيفٌ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏وَإِنَّ عِنْدَ رِجْلَيْهِ قَرَظًا مَصْبُوبًا وَعِنْدَ رَأْسِهِ أَهَبٌ مُعَلَّقَةٌ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَرَأَيْتُ أَثَرَ الْحَصِيرِ فِي جَنْبِهِ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَبَكَيْتُ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقَالَ:‏‏‏‏ "مَا يُبْكِيكَ؟"فَقُلْتُ:‏‏‏‏ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏إِنَّ كِسْرَى وَقَيْصَرَ فِيمَا هُمَا فِيهِ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏وَأَنْتَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ، ‏‏‏‏‏‏فَقَالَ:‏‏‏‏ "أَمَا تَرْضَى أَنْ تَكُونَ لَهُمُ الدُّنْيَا وَلَنَا الْآخِرَةُ".

SAHIH HADITH:

Narrated Ibn `Abbas: For the whole year I had the desire to ask `Umar bin Al-Khattab regarding the explanation of a Verse (in Surat Al-Tahrim) but I could not ask him because I respected him very much. When he went to perform the Hajj, I too went along with him. On our return, while we were still on the way home. `Umar went aside to answer the call of nature by the Arak trees. I waited till he finished and then I proceeded with him and asked him. O chief of the Believers! Who were the two wives of the Prophet who aided one another against him? He said, They were Hafsa and `Aisha. Then I said to him, By Allah, I wanted to ask you about this a year ago, but I could not do so owing to my respect for you. `Umar said, Do not refrain from asking me. If you think that I have knowledge (about a certain matter), ask me; and if I know (something about it), I will tell you. Then `Umar added, By Allah, in the Pre-lslamic Period of Ignorance we did not pay attention to women until Allah revealed regarding them what He revealed regarding them and assigned for them what He has assigned. Once while I was thinking over a certain matter, my wife said, I recommend that you do so-and-so. I said to her, What have you got to do with the is matter? Why do you poke your nose in a matter which I want to see fulfilled.? She said, How strange you are, O son of Al-Khattab! You don't want to be argued with whereas your daughter, Hafsa surely, argues with Allah's Messenger so much that he remains angry for a full day! `Umar then reported; how he at once put on his outer garment and went to Hafsa and said to her, O my daughter! Do you argue with Allah's Messenger so that he remains angry the whole day? H. afsa said, By Allah, we argue with him. `Umar said, Know that I warn you of Allah's punishment and the anger of Allah's Messenger . . . O my daughter! Don't be betrayed by the one who is proud of her beauty because of the love of Allah's Messenger for her (i.e. `Aisha). `Umar addled, Then I went out to Um Salama's house who was one of my relatives, and I talked to her. She said, O son of Al-Khattab! It is rather astonishing that you interfere in everything; you even want to interfere between Allah's Apostle and his wives!' By Allah, by her talk she influenced me so much that I lost some of my anger. I left her (and went home). At that time I had a friend from the Ansar who used to bring news (from the Prophet) in case of my absence, and I used to bring him the news if he was absent. In those days we were afraid of one of the kings of Ghassan tribe. We heard that he intended to move and attack us, so fear filled our hearts because of that. (One day) my Ansari friend unexpectedly knocked at my door, and said, Open Open!' I said, 'Has the king of Ghassan come?' He said, 'No, but something worse; Allah's Messenger has isolated himself from his wives.' I said, 'Let the nose of `Aisha and Hafsa be stuck to dust (i.e. humiliated)!' Then I put on my clothes and went to Allah's Messenger 's residence, and behold, he was staying in an upper room of his to which he ascended by a ladder, and a black slave of Allah's Messenger was (sitting) on the first step. I said to him, 'Say (to the Prophet ) `Umar bin Al-Khattab is here.' Then the Prophet admitted me and I narrated the story to Allah's Messenger . When I reached the story of Um Salama, Allah's Messenger smiled while he was lying on a mat made of palm tree leaves with nothing between him and the mat. Underneath his head there was a leather pillow stuffed with palm fibres, and leaves of a saut tree were piled at his feet, and above his head hung a few water skins. On seeing the marks of the mat imprinted on his side, I wept. He said.' 'Why are you weeping?' I replied, O Allah's Messenger ! Caesar and Khosrau are leading the life (i.e. Luxurious life) while you, Allah's Messenger though you are, is living in destitute . The Prophet then replied. 'Won't you be satisfied that they enjoy this world and we the Hereafter?'

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sahih al bukhari 1: Chapter 66, Hadith 4913

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